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Love returns to couples in 12 weeks

Why does it hurt so much even though we loved each other and got married?

We were so happy together, so why are we now clashing over trivial things?

I just want you to understand.

I just want you to be by my side.

But it doesn't get through.

I get angry. I get irritated.

And self-loathing.

"Maybe it's cold now."

"Maybe I'm not loved."

That fear tightens my chest.

Let me tell you my story.

I have been divorced twice.

"I never want to repeat the same thing again."

I really learned a lot.

I have healed and grown as a person.

And 10 years later, he remarried.

I believed that "this time it will be okay."

but--

Another fight. Another misunderstanding.

Hello, I'm Micho, a specialist in male-female relationships.

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Certified by Dr. John Gray, he works as a Mars Venus coach.

Even if we make up, the same thing happens again. "We just don't get along."

"It's difficult because it's an international marriage."

"My husband is selfish"

With that in mind, the word divorce crossed my mind.

But I was sure of one thing.

100% is not my husband's fault.

I too have something that is causing problems in our relationship.

Let's find out what that "something" is and then decide.

When I made that promise to myself, I remembered

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by Dr. John GrayIt was.

I learned his Mars Venus coaching and put it into practice in my marriage.

Then, I felt the frozen air slowly melting away.

"It's not that we don't love each other. We just misunderstood each other."

The moment I realized this, the tears wouldn't stop.

But this was where the real turning point began.

Knowledge alone will not change anything.

Because the anger that comes out at the moment of a fight

Because you're not just reacting to what's happening in front of you.

When you are touched there, your emotions instinctively react before your reason can.

I heal this hot spot (emotional blockage),

Let go of unconscious assumptions and beliefs.

And then――

Even when I say the same words, I no longer explode.

Even with the same attitude, he didn't collapse.

The more I calmed my mind, the more my husband began to calm down.

They became kinder, listened, and naturally helped out.

Love returned to the couple.

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There are three things you need to change in your marriage.

There are three things you need to change in your marriage.

1)Embrace the Queen mindset
The way of being a woman who knows her own worth, accepts love, and gently expresses her wishes.

2)Understanding the differences between men and women
Men and women have different ways of thinking and feeling.

3)Healing emotional triggers (hot spots)
Let go of reaction patterns that generate anger and sadness.

When these three come together...Marital relationships will be redesigned from the ground up.

It's not a relationship that can be maintained through effort or patience,

Towards a relationship of understanding and respect for differences.

Even if you don't try too hard,

My husband naturally wants to move.

They notice without asking,

Listen to the story to the end,

He will return to being a husband who wants to protect you.

And you--

Receive love in peace,

To a woman who is treated with respect.

Towards a relationship based on respect and trust.

For couples who can quietly be certain that "I am loved."

The "structure" of the relationship changes.

Even if you think so... That's why,

My husband is back to being a hero,

You are treated like a heroine.

That is what a real couple is like.