It's not too late even if you're over 40! 4 secrets to attracting your ideal partner

March 13, 2025 March 27, 2025

soulawakening

Is it difficult to find the perfect partner once you're over 40?

"I no longer have the confidence I had when I was younger..."

"I want to fall in love, but the pain of the past is getting in the way..."

If you’re having these feelings, it’s ok.

When I was 45 years old, I put these four tips into practice over a period of six months, attracted my ideal partner, and got married a year later.

Moreover, at that time I was depressed, had low self-esteem and self-worth, and was constantly criticizing myself. I was convinced that loving myself was self-centered.

So how did I manage to meet my ideal partner?
That's because I put four secrets into practice.

Tip 1: Connect with the Universe through Meditation and Receive Unconditional Love

The reason why love doesn't work out is due to the "state of mind" and how you use your consciousness

The first thing you need to do to attract your ideal partner is to get your energy in order.

You are now
✅「恋愛がうまくいかないのは私のせい…」 → 私がダメだから
✅「私は愛されないのでは？」 → もう若くないし、無理かもしれない
✅「理想の相手なんて、もう見つからないかも…」

If you think like that, then your thoughts will attract reality.
So what should we do?

The answer lies in meditation.
✅毎朝・夜の瞑想で宇宙と繋がる
By continuing to meditate for 30 minutes every morning and before going to bed at night, I was able to organize my thoughts and emotions and transform my energy.

Ideally, you should start with 5 minutes and gradually increase it.
By meditating...

✅心が落ち着き、焦りや不安が消える
✅自分の思考・感情を客観的に見られるようになる
✅宇宙とつながり、無条件の愛を受け取ることができる
✅「私は愛される存在なんだ」と深く実感できる
✅無限の可能性に意識を広げられる

✅瞑想のやり方（簡単ステップ）

Sit somewhere comfortable (even on your bed or sofa)
Close your eyes and take a deep breath. (When you inhale, imagine that you are receiving love. When you exhale, imagine that you are letting go of anxiety.)
Focus on your breathing (calm your mind and feel your natural breathing)
Imagine an infinite universe
Once your mind has calmed down, express your gratitude to the universe and all things in the universe, and slowly open your eyes.

Tip 2: Learn from past relationships (know your relationship patterns)

"I fell in love with the same type of person again..."
"Is it my fault that my relationships always fail?"

If your love lives always follow a similar pattern, it may be that your unconscious "love pattern" is distorted.

That's why it's important to look back on your past relationships and create a blueprint for the kind of love you truly want.

✅こんな質問を自分にしてみよう

Why did you decide to fall in love and marry this person?
What did you like and dislike about your partner?
What did he like or dislike about me?

Tip 3: Heal your inner child and increase self-love

Could the feelings of dissatisfaction from past relationships be connected to emotional wounds from childhood?
It will heal the "wounded child (inner child)" within you.

Sit comfortably on the couch or lie down in bed
Close your eyes and take a deep breath.
Ask yourself, "Is the love I was looking for in a past relationship connected to the love I was unfulfilled in as a child?"
Once you recognize this, hug your childhood self and tell her, "It's okay," and "I love you."
Accept your strengths and weaknesses and love yourself the way you are

Tip 4: Picture your ideal partner

Instead of being influenced by your parents, friends, movies, television, or social media, ask yourself, "What kind of partner does my true soul desire?"

✅一緒にいて安心できる人？
✅尊重し合える人？
✅精神的に自立している人？

✅具体的な方法
✅あなたの理想のパートナー像を紙に書き出す
✅次の日に何か追加したり、削ったりして調整する
✅徐々に理想のパートナー像を明確にしていく
✅思考・感情・体・環境を整え、直感的なひらめきがあったら行動する

Summary: You can attract your ideal partner even after turning 40!

✅秘訣①：瞑想で宇宙とつながる
✅秘訣②：過去の恋愛から学ぶ
✅秘訣③：インナーチャイルドを癒し、自己愛を高める
✅秘訣④：理想のパートナー像を描く

If you think "I can do this too!", please try it out today.
And if you have any questions feel free to send me a message!